Kink may have become a little more mainstream thanks to 50 Shades of Grey, but it’s still not always easy to find people who share your interests. However, hookup sites that specialize in kink have made it easier than ever to find partners with similar fantasies from your own area and all over the world.
Some of the most popular kinks to look out for include bondage, discipline/dominance, submission/sadism and masochism. These kinks are often explored in erotica or pornography, but they can also be enjoyed on-demand through many fetish dating websites and apps.
The best hookup kinks to try also depend on the individual’s preferences, but some of the top options for men include DIY porn and role play. Dressing up in costumes such as nurses, police officers or secretaries is a big turn-on for men and women who enjoy this type of kink. Other popular kinks include kissing and licking, oral sex, clitoral stimulation and penetrating with tools like dildos or nipple clamps.
As with all kinks and fetishes, the most important thing is to communicate openly and clearly with your partner before you try anything new. It’s also vital to have a discussion about what kind of touch you both enjoy and how to handle the scene if you do want to add elements like blindfolding or sex toys to your play. It’s also a good idea to make sure you have an escape plan if things start to go wrong and to use the nipple alarm feature on your app or website to keep yourself safe.
Another great way to get your kink on is through mutual masturbation. This can be done in-person or virtualy and offers a potent mix of voyeurism and exhibitionism. Many kinks can be enjoyed alone but some are more fun when shared, and threesomes or group sex are very popular with both men and women.
Other kinks that have become quite popular include playing with urine and drool gags. Many people find the smell, sight and feeling of urine a turn-on. Some even enjoy dribbling on themselves while their partner watches, although this should always be kept consensual.
A kink that’s less commonly known is quirofilia, which refers to an attraction to hands or fingers. This kink can be as simple as a liking a particular brand of manicure or as complex as role play with hand-related scenarios.
Lastly, there’s melolagnia, which is the sexual kink associated with music. This kink could be as simple as liking your partner’s favourite songs or banging a hot drummer, but it can also involve sexy lyrics or erotic imagery in music videos.
While the kinks mentioned above are all well and good, it’s also worth remembering that kink can be highly addictive and addictive. It’s therefore essential to have a strong support system in place if you do decide to get your freak on, whether that’s friends, family or a therapist. Just be careful to take breaks in between kink sessions and to give yourself some time to decompress afterwards.