Whether you’re into bondage and submission, erotic humiliation, or even cuckolding (yes, that’s a thing), there’s probably a site or app out there for your particular kink. In fact, one study found that about half of all adults are interested in some kind of kink, from voyeurism to exhibitionism and masochism.
But finding a kink-positive date, or just a like-minded partner, isn’t always easy. That’s why these sites and apps make it so much easier to explore your wildest fantasies with strangers who are willing to play along—or at least, don’t mind you doing so in a safe, consensual manner.
Kink dating sites and apps offer a world of possibilities, from erotic humiliation to erotic torture, to voyeurism to masochism, and more. Some are social networks, others are more traditional dating sites, but all offer an opportunity to connect with people who have similar interests. These kink-positive dating sites and apps offer a variety of ways to get your freak on, from fetish-focused apps like Whiplr to the more general Kinkoo to more specific threesome-focused options like Feeld.
Some kink dating sites are free, while others require membership to search. Some also have extra privacy controls for members, especially for photos and videos. The best kink sites are secure, discreet, and easy to use for anyone.
For instance, the kink-positive dating site Pure lets members set up threesomes and other types of alternative relationships. It’s free to join, but if you want the most discrete browsing experience, you should opt for the paid membership option. It offers a sexy interface, with naughty chat rooms for couples and solos alike.
Another kink dating site that caters to couples is Whiplr, which allows users to create profiles that include information about their fetishes and preferences, including their preferred method of communication (email, text, or video). It’s a great way to connect with a like-minded partner who enjoys the same kinds of sexual adventures you do.
While some of the kink-positive dating sites and apps on this list are more traditional dating websites, the kink-centric Kinkoo is a newer app that’s ideal for those who prefer to keep it mobile. It’s a bit more basic than some of the other options here, but it is simple and quick to use, with a focus on safety and a community that aims to educate its members on kink and fetishism. Kinkoo is also a good choice for those who are into erotic humiliation, as its sexy interface makes it easy to find partners who enjoy beating or flogging their sex toys. The app is currently available on iOS and Android, with an expected release of an updated version for the latter platform this year. The app is free to download, but additional features will cost you.